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The Flight from Intimacy: Healing Your Relationship of Counter-Dependency - The Other Side of Co-Dependency
- Janae B. Weinhold & Barry K. Weinhold. (2008, New World Library).
$14.95 - 245p. This book describes the flip side of co-dependency. It
shows how trauma during the separation stage of development causes
recurring conflicts and problems with intimacy in adult relationships.
The only book on the market on this important topic, more than half of
it is devoted to changing counter-dependent behaviors.
Breaking Free of the Co-dependency Trap - Barry K. Weinhold & Janae B. Weinhold. (2008, New World Library). $14.95 - 245p. This best-selling book, now a classic in the co-dependency literature, recognizes early developmental trauma as the primary cause of co-dependent behavior in adulthood. More than one-half of the book is devoted to tools and activities for changing co-dependent behaviors.
Healing Developmental Trauma: A Systems Approach for Counseling Individuals, Couples & Families. -
Janae B. Weinhold & Barry K. Weinhold. This book is no longer available in ebook format. It will be released in a soft cover version by Love Publishing in January 2010 and available soon after here in our bookstore.
Developmental Trauma is a subtle and difficult to recognize form of trauma caused by physical and/or emotional abandonment, physical and/or emotional neglect and physical and/or emotional abuse during the first three years of life. It involves repetitive physiological response patterns, distorted beliefs, a split inside the child’s sense of self and disturbances or distortions in relationship dynamics. Virtually all experiences of Developmental Trauma involve an energetic disconnect between the child and caregiver that is too long for the child to tolerate and is, therefore, traumatic. This book examines this groundbreaking concept and its long-term impact and presents maps and tools to help readers identify how its presence. The last part of the book describes a method for healing these early traumas in primary relationships and in therapy.
Conflict Resolution: The Partnership Way
- Barry K. Weinhold & Janae B. Weinhold. (2008). (ISBN#
978-0-89108-339-9) $68.00 - 336p. This newly revised edition of Conflict Resolution: The Partnership Way, in a combined text/workbook format, is a workshop in itself. The product of more than 20 years of research, it presents the Weinholds’ life-changing, consciousness-shifting paradigm for resolving conflicts in all human systems. Based on Developmental Systems Theory, an approach created by the authors, it contains many written exercises help personalize the information.
Breaking Free of Victim Consciousness - Barry K. Weinhold & Janae B. Weinhold. (2004). $10.00 - 30 pages.
Feeling victimized? Ready to be done with the trauma, drama and karma
that keep you trapped in 3D soap operas? This hand-book, available in downloadable ebook format, will help you
get off the Drama Triangle, heal old trauma and dismantle the matrix of
victimhood. Instead, learn how to use co creative tools such as focused
attention and intention to support a new paradigm based on
multidimensional consciousness and galactic citizenhood. Break free of
victim consciousness once and for all!
Counter-Dependency: The Flight From Intimacy - Janae B. Weinhold & Barry K. Weinhold. Two Audio CDs (2004) $17.95 - 92 minutes. A companion to the book of the same name describes how the authors’ discovered counter-dependency and provides concrete examples of how to change your counter-dependent behaviors. Narrated by the authors.
Counseling Families: An Introduction to Marriage & Family Counseling - David L. Fenell & Barry K. Weinhold. (2003). (IBSN# 0-89108-300-6). $46.00 - 448p. This textbook helps readers learn how to combine the best family systems theories and techniques with the best non-systems marriage and family theories and techniques. Many colleges and universities use it in their introductory course.
Counseling & Psychotherapy: A Transpersonal Approach - Barry K. Weinhold & Gay Hendricks. (1993). (ISBN# 0-89108-224-7). $29.95 - 233p. This classic book presents an overview of transpersonal approaches to psychotherapy and describes the key skills that transpersonal therapists need to learn.
Journey into the Multidimensional Heart - Janae B. Weinhold & Barry K. Weinhold. DVD: $19.95 - 62 min. This video from a workshop by the same name provides information on multidimensional consciousness along with tools for grounding the information in 3D reality. Demonstrates practical methods for grounding advanced spiritual concepts
Breaking Family Patterns - Barry K. Weinhold, 146p eBook, $15.00: This ebook examines the basic psychological causes of all human misery. It’s goal is to make adults more aware of the attitudes and behavior patterns that they learned during childhood. These dysfunctional, addictive family patterns often lay dormant until adulthood when they begin to interfere with relationships. It is Barry’s contention that these unconscious patterns are responsible for most of the cruelty that human beings create for themselves and others, including emotional, sexual and physical child abuse and neglect; all crimes of violence; all eating disorders, alcoholism, and drug abuse; teenage suicides; all unhappy adult relationships and perhaps all illnesses. Imbedded in all are dysfunctional ways of thinking, feeling and behaving learned as children in our family of origin.
Kindness Campaign Materials
Spreading Kindness: A Program Guide for the Kind & Safe Schools Initiative, Volume I: Implementing the Kind & Safe Schools Initiative- Barry K. Weinhold. (2006). $50.00 – 128 p. This program guide, available in downloadable ebook format, contains a step-by-step process for implementing the various components of the Kind & Safe Schools Initiative. It includes practical information drawn from over ten years of experience in implements components of KASSI in schools.
Spreading Kindness: A Program Guide for the Kind & Safe Schools Initiative, Volume II: Character Education & Bullying Prevention Activities- Barry K. Weinhold. (2006). $50.00 – 271 p. This program guide, available in downloadable ebook format, contains over 180 easy-to-use, field-tested activities for K-12 schools to help them create a character education and bullying prevention program. Includes activities for promoting kindness, cooperative learning, positive peer culture, service learning and bullying prevention. Some activities are for the whole school, some for the classroom and some for counseling groups.
Spreading Kindness: A Program Guide for the Kind & Safe Schools Initiative, Volume III: Conflict Resolution, Peer Mediation and Restorative Justice Activities- Barry K. Weinhold. (2006). $50.00 – 150 p. This program guide, available in downloadable ebook format, contains over 100 easy-to-use, field-tested activities for K-12 schools to help them create conflict resolution, peer mediation and restorative justice programs. Includes outline and learning activities for teaching a six-week conflict resolution class to all students.
Evaluation Process: Barry K. Weinhold. (2006). $350. The evaluation process for KASSI consists of the following parts:
• A school will adopt an Evaluation Plan with specific measurable objectives. Volume I contains instructions on how to prepare an Evaluation Plan and all the evaluation instruments needed to carry it out.
• The school will conduct a pre-post administration of the evaluation instruments and score these instruments following the instructions in Volume I of the Program Guide.
• Collect the other pre and post school data from school records in order to measure the effectiveness of specific objectives. (For example, number of discipline referrals to the office before the program began and then after it is established.)
• After the post-testing has been completed, school will send the data they have collected and scored to the KASSI office at 117 Lady Slipper Trail, Swannanoa, NC 28778.
• The KASSI staff will analyze the data and write a detailed Evaluation Report showing the effectiveness of each of the objectives in the Evaluation Plan created by the school. This report will also list recommendations based on the results on how the school can improve the program for next year.
Kind Beginnings: A Program Guide for Promoting Kindness in Pre-schools - Barry K. Weinhold. (2000). $20.00 - 60p. The guide, available in downloadable ebook format,contains over 45 field-tested activities for promoting kindness and respect among pre-schoolers. Designed to shift the classroom atmosphere from negative to positive.
The Kindness Campaign - Barry K. Weinhold. DVD (In Press) $19.95 - 45 min. This video describes how to implement a violence prevention program in a community or school. Provides practical suggestions and ideas for those considering this approach.
Raising Kind Kids - Barry K. Weinhold. (2000). $5.00 - 60p. This guide, available in downloadable ebook format, provides 25 field-tested activities for parents who want to promote kindness and respect in their family. Activities are for all ages. This book can easily shift your family experience from a negative one to a positive one. Highly recommended for addressing sibling put-downs and family bullying.
Rush to Judgment: The Trial of Eric Harris & Dylan Klebold - Barry K. Weinhold. (2001). $40.00 - 100p. This play, available in downloadable ebook format, is a courtroom drama for high school and college drama groups to perform. The premise is that the Columbine killers are captured and put on trial. The testimony, drawn from factual sources, shows the effects of the culture of violence on a school setting. The audience becomes the jury and after witnessing the testimony, votes on the guilt or innocence of the defendants. Good consciousness raising tool.
Building a Community of Kindness: A Community Organizer’s Guide to the Kindness Campaign - Barry K. Weinhold. (2000). $25.00 - 103p. This downloadable ebook is for community-organizers who are interested in setting up a community-based violence prevention program. It is a step-by-step description of how a community-based Kindness Campaign was organized in Colorado Springs as a model for other cities.
Bullying and School Violence: The Tip of The Iceberg - Barry K. Weinhold, Ph.D. (2004) - $10.00 - eBook. It is easy to point fingers at those who commit acts of bullying and violence and think you have identified the problem and then can punish those involved. This simple-minded solution rarely works. This article reveals the hidden causes of bullying and school violence in pervasive “culture of violence.” This culture can easily take hold in a school, family, neighborhood or community. Identifying the underlying causes of bullying and school violence is the first step in designing primary prevention programs to eliminate the problem. This eBook identifies these underlying causes of bullying and school violence and proposes primary prevention programs to effectively eliminate the problem.
Breaking Free of the Matrix eBook Series
Breaking Free of the Matrix: Recovering your Developmental History. (Janae
B. Weinhold and Barry K. Weinhold, 2008). This ebook focuses on
learning the importance of your pre-natal development and your birth
experiences in creating your personal matrix. The next step is
understanding how your family-of-origin participated in programming you
with Matrix patterns. Family-of-origin patterns are hardwired into you
by the age of three and create what is known as the “internal working
model of reality.” Unless you recognize how these early programs were
created and how they shaped your development, you will continue to be
controlled by them in your adult life, and ultimately pass them on
unexamined to the next generation. In our other books and ebooks,
you’ll find many tools and resources to help you recover the truth
about your developmental history. ($6 / 35 pages. - eBook)
Breaking Free of the Matrix: Recovering your Religious History
(Janae B. Weinhold and Barry K. Weinhold, 2008) Recovering your
religious history is an extension of the programming you got from your
family of origin. It is the next larger influence outside of your
family of origin. Any distortion in what you were taught prevents you
from breaking free of the Matrix, so you need to identify exactly which
values and beliefs from your religion and culture keep you trapped in
the matrix. ($6 / 54 pages)
Breaking Free of the Matrix: Recovering your National History (Janae B. Weinhold and Barry K. Weinhold, 2008) Creating a false and
misleading history of one’s country is an excellent way to preserve the
Matrix. Those who wrote American history books and then taught this
distorted history to trusting students intentionally excluded parts of
that history that provide people with inspiration and hope of
liberation. While American history books point to our ideals of freedom
and justice, in reality people discover that there are serious
restrictions limiting the achievement of these ideals. They become
disillusioned or cynical and hopeless to ever change the conditions
that block them from finding more freedom and equal justice. As a
result, they are easily manipulated and controlled. ($6 / 51 pages.)
Breaking Free of the Matrix: Recovering Earth’s History.
This is our home, yet we have been influenced by myths about Earth’s
creation and evolution that are not true. In order to break free from
the Matrix, it is important to understand know this very amazing truth
about Earth’s history and evolution. ($6 / 32 pages.)
Breaking Free of the Matrix: Recovering the History of the Human Species.
(Janae B. Weinhold and Barry K. Weinhold, 2008)While there is a
considerable amount of accurate information available about the history
of the human race, it is not available to the average person. Life on
Earth is much older than most people think. Much of this pre-history
about ancient civilizations can be found in the traditions of
indigenous people. ($6 / 25 pages.)
Breaking Free of the Matrix: Recovering the History of Your Soul.
(Janae B. Weinhold and Barry K. Weinhold, 2008) Recovering journey of
your soul through many lifetimes requires some deep soul-searching
work. The Matrix, through our family, religion, culture and nation
encourages us to believe that this is our only lifetime. To go beyond
this program requires the “leap of faith” that recognizes the soul is
not is limited to one lifetime and one body. ($6 / 42 pages.)
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